“If you’re interested in deepening your understanding of the Tarot, forming a personal bond with your deck, or enhancing your abilities as a reader, 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card is an excellent experiential guide for connecting with the cards.” —Janet Boyer
Are you looking for a way to enliven your tarot practice and expand your skills? Then I urge you to try Mary K. Greer’s 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card. This is a shameless plug for my latest book. I wrote it, in part, to help you discover what reading style you most resonate with but also to push the boundaries of what you thought was possible in a tarot reading. It’s all about how to discover meaning for yourself. It’s also where I reveal all my tarot reading “secrets.”
I first read Victor Frankl’s Man’s Search for Meaning a very long time ago. As an army brat who had lived in post-War Japan and Germany I was interested in Frankl’s concentration camp story and how he not only survived but transformed his experience into gold. What stuck with me was his belief that “Everything can be taken . . . [except for] the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
It may seem ironic that I was then drawn to tarot, which one might think promises to reveal a predetermined future. Personally, I don’t find tarot all that good at predicting specifically what is about to happen. Instead, as I say at the top of my blog, “Tarot helps you meet whatever comes in the best possible way.”
Tarot helps me see what has brought me to a situation, what really concerns me in the now, and the qualities I believe will most help me meet the future I value. It helps me move forward with a sense of purpose and relieves anxiety.
Victor Frankl, who created something called logotherapy, believed that the primary, most powerful motivating and driving force in human beings is our striving to find a meaning in life. But this is not a fixed point. He explains, “What matters is not the meaning of life in general, but rather the specific meaning of a person’s life at a given moment.” Tarot is a tool for finding one’s purpose and meaning in the moment so that our choices are relevant. Meaning is an expression of the emotional relationship between ourselves and the world (as perceived through symbols). It aids survival, especially by preserving the integrity of the personality. This is what my book 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card aims for.
In another favorite book, The Spell of the Sensuous, David Abram says, “meaning also involves a meeting and a resonance.” In tarot we can meet what’s in the cards and resonate with that. In physics, resonance indicates the probability that a particular reaction will be at a maximum. Through the cards, we practice, in a safe space, resonating with people, ideas and events so we can meet them in real life in a way that harmonizes with our clarified purpose and direction.
All too often card meanings are mere definitions and the cards are flat and lifeless. Using the processes in 21 Ways the cards come alive so we can participate in their meanings and discover a “felt” inner significance. All our senses are involved. Try out some of the exercises and see if the card you are working with doesn’t become more vibrant, colorful and seemingly alive.
The 21 Ways are like the contents of a Magician’s bag of tricks but wielded by the High Priestess. They are processes I’ve developed and worked with in hundreds of classes and with thousands of people in readings. While you may be familiar with most of them at the “apprentice” level, you may not have ever applied them all to a single card. I’ve taken many groups through most of these 21 methods in a couple of hours. It involves going deeper and deeper into something you thought you knew to find much that you’d never touched on before.
Each step has a second level called “The Way of the Adept” that explores the implications of these techniques and offers further activities that will hone your practice—whether for yourself or when using tarot with others. Some of my favorite activities include “once upon a time” story-telling and then repeating it in the first person, the “Benefit and Liability Meter,” the 3-Card Drawing where you use crayons to sketch an integrated scene (see drawing above), and working with the archetypes. The 3-Card Drawing is actually the best way I’ve ever found to teach people to integrate the meanings of cards in a spread.
Warning: this book is not for everyone. If you want concrete meanings and keywords for the cards, both upright and reversed, then see The Complete Book of Tarot Reversals. If you want fixed rules and absolutes then don’t come here. If you want creativity and play, the breaking of rules and exploration of taboos this might be for you. But, it’s risky to look this deep.
I would love to answer your questions about the book and hear about your experiences with it in the Comments.
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September 7, 2009 at 1:45 am
Mary
I personally reccommend it. As a professional reader I’ve drawn a lot of inspiration from it and it has helped me to come out of the “one card, one meaning” box. I often talk about this book in my blog- and many of my followers regret the book is not available in Spanish.(Not many people can read English in Spain)
Story telling is one of my favourite activities. I have a vivid imagination and it makes me look at cards in ways I never thought possible. I reccomend this book wholeheartedly.
September 7, 2009 at 6:33 am
Thomas
I think you have a wonderful point. The tarot for me also helps me find meaning and insight primarily in the present and helps me face the future. Thanks so much for your fantastic insights. I look forward to reading the book!
September 7, 2009 at 11:38 am
cynthia tedesco
’21 WAYS TO READ A TAROT CARD’ by Mary Greer truly had a life-changing effect upon my life. Several Readers’ Studios ago Mary gave us an assignment in drawing ( so I thought ) a picture bringing a 3 card reading together in one picture. To make a long story short – my immediate thought was, “—-!” I am still drawing as if in Kindergarten! But I did my infant drawing. Mary called me up to the podium & I was embarrassed that my artistic friends would now see my horrific ‘art.’ But that was hardly the point the of the exercise – as Mary pointed out. For weeks I had intense dreams about that reading and those cards.
Walking into a pet store w/family one night, on our way to a restaurant, I was ‘hit’ w/the meaning of the exercise and spread… w/in a week my husband and I were the proud owners of two wonderful hypoallergenic Havanese puppies.
This may seem ‘simplistic’ to those not deeply involved w/dogs, cats & animals in general. To those who are ardent lovers of the animal world I don’t have to say how intensely our dogs have enhanced our lives.
My experience also points out that the meaning of reading may take days, weeks & perhaps months to materialize – particularly when reading for ourselves… to have a ‘document’ not only of the i.e. your 3 cards in text but in a visual – no matter how primitive – that one can refer to over time is infinitely valuable.
I’m deeply grateful to Mary & to ’21 Ways To Read A Tarot Card.’ Our pets have brought us hours of joy and laughter…
All Blessings,
Cynthia Tedesco
September 7, 2009 at 4:12 pm
Tero
“it’s risky to look this deep”, love that. That’s the place of transformation. I’ve been planning to write an article about Tarot and logotherapy to a local (finnish language) Logotherapy magazine, as the art therapy I practise is 50% about logotherapy. Could I quote what you wrote here about the relationship, naturally your info included?
September 7, 2009 at 4:53 pm
mkg
Tero –
I’m happy to have you quote me. Please share with us your thoughts about how logotherapy (and “meaning”) applies to tarot.
mkg
September 7, 2009 at 11:48 pm
Susan
Mary, this article of yours on your book, 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card, is very timely.
On the forum of The Tarot Association of the British Isles a number of members have formed a study group for this book. We began on September the 1st, following the ‘Apprentice level’. We have a very able facilitator and are on the third exercise presently. There are many participating with great enthusiasm and with a good level of writing skill.
Some of us had the book to begin with and a number of us bought the book for the study group.
For myself, in the past, I have read through the book and done a few of the exercises in a random fashion, knowing full well that this was not how the book was meant to be used. Now, I will work through it as you meant, in company with others. The perfect situation in my opinion!
Thank you for the book and the concept. They do indeed teach one to enter the Tarot in a very deep and meaningful way. Also thank you for the article on your blog. Many years ago, I too read Victor Frankl’s book, and, like you, his life’s learning profoundly changed my own frame of reference.
Many blessings,
Susan
September 8, 2009 at 12:26 am
mkg
Susan –
I know how valuable it is to go through these exercises with a group, since most are ones that I’ve used in classes and workshops for a long time. Hearing the perspective of others broadens your view of what’s possible, plus I find it augments one’s focus and creativity.
I would like to say though, that when doing the exercises on your own, after doing the first four steps it’s possible to skip around based on your own interests. There is a developmental sequence that is especially helpful to a novice, but it’s not absolute. Or go through the “Way of the Apprentice” in order and then pick up sections of the “Way of the Adept” to which you are most drawn.
My key advice is don’t get bogged down with doing things perfectly or feeling you have to understand everything. Many of the activities can be done very quickly—noting first impressions. Jot down your thoughts and move on. Sometimes you don’t get what your card is really saying until a week or two down the road when suddenly everything comes together.
Mary
September 8, 2009 at 1:40 am
Susan
Thank you for that Mary. Yes, I agree. One can get hung up in one’s own rigidity without even being aware of it. Especially if one feels that doing something the ‘right’ way is paramount, and then being defeated by that very attitude.. I will remember to maintain personal flexability within the study group. I wonder could I have your permission to share your last post with the study group on TABI?
Susan
September 8, 2009 at 4:52 am
Igraine (Beth Roth)
Mary, Two Summers ago over at Tarot for Life I led a Summer School using 21 Ways as our format. We met online at a particular time and day. 25 people signed up and so in order to create an intimate environment we broke up into 5 pods with a pod leader. I wrote up lesson plans for each class, pulling the cream from each of your chapters and provided the pod leaders with them ahead of time. We’d gather as a group and hold an informal chat/share time and then break into small groups. I have to say it was a very powerful and intimate experience. We got to know each other quite well through this in depth sharing of the cards. I just want to thank you once again for your profound wisdom and magical ability to inspire and guide us all!
September 8, 2009 at 9:56 am
Pitch313
Sounds like magic to me. Magic the way I have figured out how to live it. But not necessarily magic the way she is usually taught.
September 8, 2009 at 10:29 am
mkg
Susan –
Yes, definitely share anything from this blog with others – as long as the source is acknowledged.
Mary
September 8, 2009 at 10:36 am
mkg
Igraine –
I think I remember hearing about your group (my memory is not what it used to be 😉 ). I’m glad that it worked so well. Aeclectic’s tarot forum had a group that went through all the steps at the Apprentice level.
Would love to hear any suggestions that you think would help others. I think the point about it getting very intimate is important. In group work you need to establish a sacred space where revelations will be respected and heard without judgment – just like when reading for a client.
September 8, 2009 at 10:38 am
mkg
Pitch –
I agree with you. This kind of work is real magic. It’s like stepping into a current and not fighting it, knowing that what you need will surface as you need it.
September 8, 2009 at 10:42 am
Tero
Mary,
I think Tarot and logotherapy is quite an interesting combination. I was really surprised that I couldn’t find a single link to a site which would’ve dealt with such a combination. I’m sure there are logotherapists who use Tarot – there must be – but not a single site? Just google “tarot + logotherapy”, it’s a dead end. If you have any idea about people who would use this combo I’d love to hear 🙂
I’m definitely not an expert on the subject of logotherapy, far from it, (the same goes to Tarot) but I did find some interesting parallels between the two. I thought about self-detachment and self-transcendence, very popular concepts in logotherapy, and about the idea of perspective in these.. isn’t it very much about gaining a broader and wider perspective in these two concepts? And then I thought about what happens in a Tarot reading. Just the physical level by itself: you sit there by the table, cards are in front of you, you are yourself literally above the cards, looking down at them. If and when the cards are showing you your own life and situation, then you are above these, having a physical perspective already. Isn’t that a great start for a “self-transcendence”? It’s almost like Tarot saying, “yes, you can rise above your situation.. see, you are already above it!”
The meaning of life — isn’t this what basically every Tarot reading is about? No matter what our subject is, there’s always the motivation to find a meaning in it, or behind the obvious. I like what Frankl said about finding a meaning, that it’s very difficult if not downright impossible to answer the big question (the meaning of life), but you can answer it if you bring it closer to your own life.. what’s the meaning of my situation here and now, what’s the meaning of this problem, relationship, etc. You make it smaller and thereby more tangible. And that’s what we are after in a Tarot reading, finding an answer is about finding a meaning. But here comes the big question for the reader and the querent / client; who gives the meaning and where can the meaning be found? If we stick to a fixed set of card meanings, how personal can the reading – and the meaning – become?
In my current understanding the answer to this is to be found in working actively with the images. Therefore I always ask the client, “what does this image ask from you?”. I don’t provide the answer for the simple reason that I can’t know what the answer is. I can tell the general meanings of the card in question, basic symbology of the iconography, some of the correspondances (numerological, astrological, cabbalistic, etc.) but the “true meaning of this card here and now” – that I think is for the client to discover. And for this reason we need to have different techniques at hand to help the client achieve in finding the meaning (which is why 21 Ways to Read a Tarot Card is so great!).
What I also found a gem among his ideas was what Frankl said about suffering, that we shouldn’t suffer unnecessarily. Isn’t that what happens all too often, we prolong an unbearable situation, avoid taking responsibility.. and suffer unnecessarily. Tarot reading can then be one way of becoming conscious of what needs to change.
September 8, 2009 at 11:53 am
mkg
Tero –
I think you are really on to something here and I hope you continue to develop the parallels between logotherapy and tarot.
Frankl was also concerned, not only with body and mind (soma and psyche), but with what he called the “noetic” or spiritual core of our being. A tarot reader, not being tied to the DSM bible of disorders or the need to establish social “normalcy,” can transcend psychotherapy and focus on noetic healing. In fact, I think that’s what we should begin to think about calling our work.
Mary
September 9, 2009 at 10:19 pm
Andalusia
LOL I can only see the 6 of Wands & the Tower in the illustration. 😦
September 10, 2009 at 1:53 pm
mkg
Andalusia – The picture may be too small to see the details. The Fool is in the window high up in the Tower – you can see his/her pouch and she/he holds a white rose (outlined in black) in a hand.
The Fool has not yet left the Tower, but lightning is striking her/his mouth – indicating that the time to speak out has come. In fact, the person in the 6 of Wands is also the Fool but now freed from the Tower. “The truth shall set you free.”
In my life this drawing coincided with a series of shocks (and a crumbling foundation) about which I had to speak out and which left me with the realization that a long-term relationship was over; I would have to leave. Although it was another year or so before I actually moved out, the decision was made precisely at the time I did the picture. I looked at it and KNEW.
Interestingly, I was on a teaching trip with my partner who kept packing my coat away and then telling me he didn’t know where it was. Unconsciously he was trying to keep me from riding off.
September 18, 2009 at 2:40 pm
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September 18, 2009 at 2:54 pm
Carolyn
Greetings, Mary!
We don’t have news to report yet because our Massachusetts Tarot Society Study Group doesn’t start until October, but I’ll come back with comments … and it is great to see how others have used it. Thanks for creating this inspiring resource that is perfect for study groups.
Be well,
Carolyn
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